Rethink Families
Prejudices. Stereotypes. Ignorance.
We know what you are going through. And if challenges make you stronger, you’ll have the strength to face the challenges waiting ahead.
At Born Donor Bank, we believe that everyone has the right to start a family, and that all family forms deserve acceptance, respect, and recognition in society.
We know that starting or growing a family is a deeply personal experience, and we’re here to support you every step of the way – even when things get tough.
Whether you're facing fertility challenges, starting a family on your own, or taking this step with a same-sex partner, we understand what you're going through. We see you. We hear you. And we believe that, while this process can be challenging, it will make you stronger and prepare you, like no one else, to start a family.
We want to break down the barriers you face and challenge the outdated attitudes and prejudices that still exist—because it’s time for change!
Our hope is to inspire progress, open minds, and spark meaningful conversations that foster greater acceptance. By rethinking what family means, we can create a more inclusive society where every family form is valued, supported, and celebrated.
Got Any Questions?
If you'd like to know more about choosing a donor and starting your family, of if you are just curious about your options, or need some guidance, we’re here to help.
Did you know
Every year, around 12,000 people in the UK have treatment with the help of a donor.
Hear From the Families
Read stories from women who have started a family on their own, couples struggling with infertility, and same-sex couples wanting to become parents.
They share both the highs and lows, highlighting the many paths to parenthood and the love that defines a family, no matter how it is formed.
Their stories also shed light on the prejudices and challenges they still face. Let’s challenge these outdated views and advocate for greater acceptance and recognition of all family forms.
Stay tuned for more stories in the coming days.
“I think the biggest prejudice that solo mothers face is that it's selfish to have a child on your own. It is not done „the normal way “, not intended by God, against nature.”
Katarina, Germany
“In France, the doctor I first consulted did not understand my decision at all. He told me I was “crazy” but also that I was “attractive enough to find a man.” This outdated mindset pushed me to seek out professionals who shared my vision.”
Claire, France
“Fortunately for our friends, it has been super easy for them, so they got pregnant quickly. It's not that we can't be happy for them, because we genuinely can, but it's heartbreaking that it has to be so difficult for us.”
AnnSofie, Denmark
“Another prejudice is that single mothers hate men. Because they are single, they are not normal, they have done something wrong. They are not able to have relationships.”
Katarina, Germany
“Don’t let other people’s opinions hold you back. When people ask me, “Where is the dad?” I simply reply: "My child doesn’t have a dad—he has his mum." I chose this path with pride, and there is absolutely no shame in being a solo mum by choice.”
Claire, France
“I have felt a lot of jealousy, and anger because we thought, what have we done to deserve this? And along with the jealousy came a lot of guilt.”
AnnSofie, Denmark
Meet Lydia ❤️
Lydia was 39 years old when she made the decision to become a solo mom. A few years earlier, she had already chosen to freeze her eggs, and a half-awake dream made her realize that she was ready to become a mother. Today, Lydia works as a coach and helps other women who wish to become solo mothers. She is passionate about sharing her experience and supporting women who are facing the same decision, and she believes that every woman's journey to motherhood is unique and beautiful.
Meet Line ❤️
Line is 20 years old and has a son. She is studying pedagogy and is currently in a relationship. When she decided to have a child, she chose to use a donor because she didn’t want to tie a man to her dream but instead create a family on her own terms. Losing her parents at a young age had a profound impact on her life, which is why she has made it a priority to build a safe and loving home for her son, whom she loves dearly.
Meet Pia ❤️
Pia had her daughter, Karla, with the help of a donor when she was 40 years old. After being in a long-term relationship that didn’t lead to children, Pia realised she could still fulfil her dream of becoming a mother. It took her a year to make the decision to use a donor, but once she had made the choice, she knew it was the right one. Pia has written children's books about different types of families, inspired by her daughter Karla, who started asking questions about growing up without a father in a solo mum family. Pia’s books give children the language to understand and accept their unique family constellation.
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